Ukhuwah

An attitude that defeats the unity is obsessed with the individual or group. The attitude of extreme obsessed will lead the group tend to feel that only the truth. 

Actually the truth is only Allah. It can not be equated with any groub. 

No faction can claim they are the only group that was fighting for truth, while others do not. If this occurs then the crack of unity of the ummah. 

Be “Ana khairun minhu” (I am the best of you) that has spread make us forget that every human has the advantage and therein lies the uniqueness of each individual has its own range of perceptions and preferences. 

These differences must be acknowledged and respected by all and do not want “equalize” what if Allah were set differently. If bigotry can be overcome, then unity can be discussed and implemented successfully.

By removing our ego attitude, we know what can achieve or not in the discussion and we will be more realistic. During the discussion, we will not waste time with prejudice, thus using the paradigm “kink” to slove the problem. Unity means to manage differences, not eliminate them. 

The leaders of each faction or group must be wise. Now, it’s less wise leaders in leading the community but they are only good at managing the system. 

Their signs are not good at managing the difference is when there is protest attitude and disputes things too much. 

Firman Allahs.w.t ; Kemudian jika kamu berselisih pendapat dalam sesuatu perkara, maka hendaklah kamu kembalikannya kepada Allah (al-Quran) dan Rasulnya (Sunnah) jika kamu benar-benar beriman kepada Allah dan hari khairat. Yang demikian itu lebih baik bagi kamu dan lebih elok pula kesudahannyha.” (Surah al-Nisa’ 4:59).....Wallahu’alam.